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How a wave becomes a conversation
Someone catches your eye.
Browsing who's nearby, a profile stands out. Shared interests, the same energy, and enough to turn a simple hello into the start of a conversation.
One tap to say hello.
A Wave is the easiest way to show genuine interest. You only get one per person, so every Wave is a deliberate first move.
It lands gently, never spammy.
Your wave appears in their activity. No pushy notifications. If they wave back, the chat begins. That shared 'yes' is what makes every connection here feel real.
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One wave per person.
A wave isn't something you spam. You get a single wave for each person, so when you send one, it actually means something. It only reopens if you cross paths again on another day.
The life of a wave
Every wave moves through a few simple states, you always know exactly where you stand.
Sent
You signal interest with a single tap.
Received
It appears in their activity. No notifications spam.
Accepted
Mutual interest opens a persistent chat.
Expired
Unanswered waves quietly fade away.
Why a wave, not a message?
No blank page
Skip the pressure of writing a perfect opener to a stranger.
Lower stakes
A wave is easy to send and easy to receive. No awkwardness either way.
Real signal
Because it's mutual-or-nothing, a chat only starts when both people opt in.
Built to feel safe, not spammy
Every part of initiiator is designed to make reaching out feel comfortable, respectful, and always in your control.
One wave per person
You can't spam someone with waves. A single wave is all you get, so each one carries weight.
Reopens only on a new day
An unanswered wave quietly expires. It only becomes available again if you cross paths another day.
Mutual-or-nothing
A chat opens only when both people say yes. No one can reach you off a one-sided wave.
Questions?
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Meet people you fancy.
Wave to the connections you want.
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